andriavanb

1 year ago
...democracies do poorly in the face of laziness & poor citizenship participation in voting, whether it's nationwide or local elections. People can't afford to take their rights or their freedoms for granted. There are always power-hungry, greedy people waiting to take advantage of apathy. And thank you for attending my mini-history Ted talk! Sorry, just had to talk about that cause I'm upset and scared. But I'm excited that you're going to South Korea next year! That should be amazing! I hope I

andriavanb

1 year ago
...didn't overwhelm you. But people in our community need to know about this... Much love to you, my friend. 👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼💛💗💛🤗🤗🤗🤗

Ankitha Nair

1 year ago
incredible work 😍😍 love this 😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️ it's been long time tat you have posted.. hope you are doing well ❤️

•Amles•

1 year ago
Don’t worry @andriavanb I am just surprised that u wrote this much and it was so nice to see ppl with common sense. And sorry I didn’t answer in a while just forgot to check in or sm. And it just surprised me that abortion is basically illegal now is the US. To the majority here in Sweden it’s no doubt that abortion should be legal, and I’m really thankful for that. It’s just scary that guns literally have more rights than a person with a uterussy. Like what if like a 13 yo got r*ped and ⬇️

•Amles•

1 year ago
Pregnant, is she just supposed to keep the kid?! And what if her and har family aren’t financially stable and can’t take care of the kid she’s now FORCED to give birth to, the kid is gonna en up in the system and just messed up. The world is already overpopulated too. Also, they call themselves “pro life”, and lemme tell ya, they ain’t!! If they where they would take care of the children who’s already suffering. Some wise person on the internet said that they think kids only matter when they’re⬇️

•Amles•

1 year ago
Not born yet. The fact that they’re “rethinking” same-sex marriages is just sick and scary too. “Everybody should have the same rights” can u imagine that some ppl be like, “nah, I don’t think so” like wtf?!?!? And what u said that this reminds u of gent any in the 30s made me really scared, but it may be true, but I hope not. As a European I cinda view USA as a “divided” country or a country with dubbel morals. On one hand the lgbtq’s are fighting and thriving, as with feminists and ppl of ⬇️

•Amles•

1 year ago
Color, while on the other side ppl are trying to take away their rights little by little, forcing their religion on ppl and just casually thinking that guns r okay. It feels like the biggest revolutions happen there as well the biggest contrasts. And speaking of guns I got very scared when I heard bout the things in Norway, cus it’s so close to home yk? And I’m sorry had to deal with discrimination from ur own family members. I’m not like “Out Out” yet, so ppl don’t really treat me bad cus of ⬇️

•Amles•

1 year ago
Me being lgbt. But the ppl who do know don’t really care, they just treat me the same. I’m not out to my dad yet but he and my mom doesn’t seem to care really if someone is lgbt. They usually say they they don’t care (in terms of getting jobs) if a persons lgbt or of color, the one who deserves the job should get it, no matter their gender or seggsuality. But also remember that you didn’t choose your family, maybe you’d still be friends if u weren’t family, maybe not. Just keep in mind that the⬇️

•Amles•

1 year ago
Ones u choose to be ur family is ur real one, and ur “real one” can of course include ur family members, mine would at least. Lots of hugs from over that pond 🤗🤗🤗

andriavanb

1 year ago
Oh my friend, it is so amazing to hear from you!! I've missed talking to you. I really love hearing your super intelligent thoughts (as a European) on what's going on here in America. Yeah, basically the Supreme Court has left abortion rights up to the states to decide. Which means that depending on whether you live in a liberal (pro-choice) state, or a conservative (anti-abortion) state, your location will determine your rights as a woman! Which makes our country even more divided. So now the

andriavanb

1 year ago
...conservative states are trying to enact laws to prevent women from traveling to liberal states to get abortions! It's insane how controlling they are trying to be over our bodies! Unfortunately, I don't live in a liberal state. So right now where I live, corpses & fetuses have more rights than girls & women! What kind of sense does that make?! And yes, if you're pregnant by r*PE or in*est, you will be forced to go through with the pregnancy. It doesn't matter to them that the planet now has

andriavanb

1 year ago
...8 billion people. Or that our country isn't set up for more foster children, there's no infrastructure or adequate funds & support for poor single mothers or overburdened families, or that there's absolutely not any real automatic support for traumatic pregnancies (such as the ones I mentioned above plus those where the pregnancy isn't viable, or it puts the mom's life in danger, or for woman who never wanted to have children) like counseling, support systems, group therapy, etc.

andriavanb

1 year ago
It's insane. There's going to be a lot of traumatized or upset moms & unwanted, unsupported children coming out of this! America is so divided with it's views. It all has to do with how much you think it's ok to let your religious or personal "morals" decide laws. Our democracy is supposed to constitutionally have religion & government kept separate, but recently the conservatives have taken key positions in the courts & state governments & they are forcing their religious/ethical views into our

andriavanb

1 year ago
...laws, which is making America more of a theocracy than a democracy, and I wonder how much the Founding Fathers might be rolling in their graves right now? I'm terrified about the fact that they're going after same-sex relationships & marriage as well as contraception next! They're going to try to make me illegal because of who I love? Does it mean fines, jail, conversion therapy? What about all those that are already legally married? Are their marriages & families invalid & illegal? Will they

andriavanb

1 year ago
...be torn apart? And with contraception, will all forms of birth control be illegal? What about men who've had vasectomies? Will they be in trouble or is it just women they're going after? And you're spot on about the rampant racism & white fragility that's going on here. I worry if we don't come together & vote these radical religious extremists out, we could see another civil war! And guns are NOT ok, they're dangerous, especially those automatic weapons of war that are so often used in

andriavanb

1 year ago
...mass shootings! But guns have more rights than women right now! It's horribly hurtful to be told you're going to hell because of who you are & who you love, which you have no more control over than a heterosexual does. I look forward to finding the people that I choose to be my "family ". Lots of hugs to you too from this side of the pond!!! 💗💗💗💗🤗🤗🤗🤗😃😃😃

•Amles•

1 year ago
@andriavanb I’m so sorry u live I’m a republican state, but I hope that ur thriving anyways!🤗 I don’t really know which states r liberal or not, so I have no clue which state lol. But anyways, just reading all of that made me happy and scared at the same time. Like if they forbid same-sex marriages and relationships I’m wondering the same things as u. And since they base the law of religion and morals should love be legal. I mean the whole punchline of Christianity is god loves everybody and ⬇️

•Amles•

1 year ago
So should u, and treat ppl like u want them to treat u. Where is that in the law and their morals?! Idk bout u but I find it hard to believe that god would just be like “ yeah ya know I talk bout love a lot, but I just don’t like all types of love” tf his son literally had 2 dads! Also some idiots translated a part in the Bible a long time ago to say “it’s not okay for a man to sleep with another man” instead of “it’s not okay for a nan to sleep with a boy”. They meant that pedophilia is wrong ⬇️

•Amles•

1 year ago
Not homosexuality. The whole thing just makes me sigh in disappointment and sadness. All of this is a sign that we should throw out the old white men and have ppl under 50 to make laws. And more queer ppl, women ppl of color. It’s important cus now we r letting old white cis-straight men make decisions for women and queer ppl. And the world cinda follow what the us does. I just hope that the world don’t make the same stupid a*s laws. I would say that Sweden is like a “wanna be” USA until the us⬇️

•Amles•

1 year ago
F*cks up like now, and we’re like “I’m glad it’s not like that here”. That’s kind of a Swedish thing, thinking that something doesn’t bother u. Hope ur well either way over there lots of hugs from ur Swedish meatball!!! 🇸🇪🧆🤗🤗🤗🤗🧡🧡