I'm so sorry about all that. coming out to people you love so much is really hard, and I really hope your girlfriend is accepting and understanding.
she might just be taking awhile cause she could be processing it, or already knows her answer and got distracted.
sending you virtual hugs!! I really hope it all works out and you stay together and happy ππ
stacecat<3
1 year ago
@A_person_who_likes_things oh nooo....wdym-?
A_person_who_likes_things
1 year ago
@Β°β΅.q.β° ππ₯πππ β°.q.β΅Β° You can read the response that I gave @.β’. strawberry girl .β’.
And sheβs been processing for over 3 hours. Thank you for the virtual but I think I need real hugsβ¦
stacecat<3
1 year ago
ahh I wish I could give you real hugs π£
*.β’ strawberry girl β’.*
1 year ago
Oh no Iβm so sorry Iβd hug rn if i couldβ¦
In my opinion, you coming out to her shouldnβt change anything in your relationship bc she already knows you and your personality and all the important stuff that makes you you, ya know? (Not sure if Iβm making any sense rn tbh)
Hopefully sheβll take the time to realize that she accepts you and still wants to be with you
Iβm here for you whatever you need Ad~ if we were talking in person Iβd let you cry on my shoulder but weβre not so
stacecat<3
1 year ago
@.β’. strawberry girl .β’. I completely agree!!
A_person_who_likes_things
1 year ago
@Β°β΅.q.β° ππ₯πππ β°.q.β΅Β° @.β’. strawberry girl .β’. You both are literally so kind and caringπ
And sheβs acting weird about itβ¦ I hope nothing else changes. I really need to cry but I canβtβ¦ maybe tonight. I hate relationships sm!! Theyβreβ¦ theyβre justβ¦ heartbreaking.
Virtual hugs are so needed rnβ¦ again, thank you both smβ€οΈ
stacecat<3
1 year ago
@A_person_who_likes_things
ofc!! we're always here anytime you need to talk/vent :) don't be afraid to cry! it's good to get your emotions out β€οΈβ€οΈ
A_person_who_likes_things
1 year ago
@Β°β΅.q.β° ππ₯πππ β°.q.β΅Β° Thanks a lot againβ¦ and I canβt cry unless Iβm in the bathroom. I hate having people see me cry. And Iβm honestly waiting for her to break up w/ me. I literally hate this all sm. It absolutely sucks. I regret everything and I just wanna go to sleep rn. I reallyβ¦ really just want to sleepβ¦
*.β’ strawberry girl β’.*
1 year ago
I was gonna say what @Β°β΅.q.β° ππ₯πππ β°.q.β΅Β° said too~ she beat me to it
@A_person_who_likes_things im sorry. This Makes me so sad for you.
Also it really was. Her mom just listens to her and it's honestly just wrong. Actually just tonight she joined my friend and is mc game. She didn't answer to anything we said, but she stayed the whole time. I'm kinda confuses and terrified. We have a lot in common but she's also an immature jerk. If you have any feedback please tell me about it I have no idea what to do.
And honey if she doesn't love you for who you are, kno-
@.πππππ π¨. Itβs fine and really?? Well, you could always confront her about it or just tell a trusted adult that itβs making you uncomfy. And yea, going up and doing confrontations are nerve racking but it may make it all better. People are weird in their actions and most make me sick. Maybe she just wants attention and acknowledgment that she wonβt leave but you have to ignore and force her outta your life. This is really annoying for you and Iβm sorry about thatβ€οΈ sorry for not better(limitβ¦)
A_person_who_likes_things
1 year ago
(β¦continued) advice. My brains not working.
And yea, sheβs responded a bit better but sheβs still confused. Asked me a couple questions about it as well so thatβs good. Sheβs a bit more understanding but doesnβt like it. I told her how my pst poly relationship went and she didnβt mind it but she still doesnβt like it idk. Maybe itβs the sharing thing..?
@A_person_who_likes_things
Yeah my mom knew about it when it was going down in the school year. The toxic friend said I have too much ego, and then pulled out the "can't spell ego without the e from Elise." card.
I don't have her phone number so the only way to contact her is to email her. If I confront her shell get her way, her mom only listens to her. I gotta figure this out on my own.
I'm glad she's responded. It's good she's asking questions too, that shows she's giving you at least -
A_person_who_likes_things
1 year ago